my husband went to Brown
People from Brown (& Cornell) are the worst. They've got a chip on their shoulder (if not one in their bed). It's all sub-Ivy that becomes even more Ivy than one thought possible. The number of times someone will tell "who dey claim" is inversely proportional to how they feel about the fact that they didn't go to Harvard, Yale, or Princeton.
This insecurity repeats itself in miniature with people who went to Princeton or Yale, who will always explain that they didn't go to Harvard because Princeton and Yale offer better undergraduate experiences. The fact that this is true doesn't lessen the sting of envy. Harvard and MIT grads generally seem to think that went to the best college in the universe, as do people who went to undistinguished schools with great football teams or those sex and skiing camps in Maine and Vermont.
EDIT - I once did a summer language course with a undergrad from Brown who spent the entire time deriding the Princeton students for being "immature"; evidently she was preparing her shoulder-chip for a long life of hard use.
Last edited by Gilgamesh2003 (2012-05-21 06:44:05)
My son actually turned down Harvard for the same reason you cite. He was not the only one in his class. Maybe what you say was true in the past, but at least kids my son's age (he's 25 now) seem to figure out what they want for themselves.
But I know the sting of envy well myself, having gone to Colgate and wishing it was Dartmouth.
Interesting. In my world being public school, let alone having been to Oxford or Cambridge, is a strike against you to be overcome by demonstrating talent. Is there also an American version of this? Are there jobs you'll get turned down for because you've been to an Ivy and people just assume that you're going to be difficult to fit into their team?
Although I've primarily always worked in Finance, it's usually been in the more creative industries - TV, Advertising, Marketing, Publishing.
Jimbo wrote:
Interesting. In my world being public school, let alone having been to Oxford or Cambridge, is a strike against you to be overcome by demonstrating talent. Is there also an American version of this? Are there jobs you'll get turned down for because you've been to an Ivy and people just assume that you're going to be difficult to fit into their team?
Although I've primarily always worked in Finance, it's usually been in the more creative industries - TV, Advertising, Marketing, Publishing.
In finance? I though the ol' school tie still held some sway. No?
Party politics seems to have been taken over by Oxbridge, chiefly Oxford PPE grads, especially the higher echelons. Last Cambridge PM was Stanley Baldwin IIRC a Trinity man which is as bad as Oxford.
I don't think the Ivies have such a grip on power as Oxbridge does here.
Last edited by formby (2012-05-25 12:38:08)
I've always found it regarded as a a turn off & it invited a load of prejudice.
I won 'em over...
But I'm not the typical product they churn out.
Jimbo wrote:
I've always found it regarded as a a turn off & it invited a load of prejudice.
I won 'em over...
But I'm not the typical product they churn out.
It does invite a lot of ridicule as being a chinless inbred wonder, the kind who populate politics of all persuasions and certain upper echelons of the Armed forces by birth right. Cameron fits into that model pretty well.
But the same can be said for coming from the 'barren' North West, as Formby, JG and my goodself hail from. A lot of Southerners seem to think everyone is impoverished up there and stealing cars whilst smoking super skunk hero on the dole. It's not actually true of course, but they seem to think there is no middle class and everyone is desperate and stupid.
And of course, because property was up until recently much cheaper than the South East, the middle class had much more disposable income then their cockney equivalents.
The members of the current UK government are perfect examples of why socialists should try harder. What makes me despise Cameron et al. so much is their faux blokishness - Algernon Farquharson-Keiths parading as Gary Smiths - for the votes of course. You can your bottom dollare that they batten down the hatches in private and play charades for real at the weekend.
Jimbo
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Public school=Publically funded state school
Private school=Publically subsidized fee charging private school.
Jimbo wrote:
Interesting. In my world being public school, let alone having been to Oxford or Cambridge, is a strike against you to be overcome by demonstrating talent. Is there also an American version of this? Are there jobs you'll get turned down for because you've been to an Ivy and people just assume that you're going to be difficult to fit into their team?
Although I've primarily always worked in Finance, it's usually been in the more creative industries - TV, Advertising, Marketing, Publishing.
My brother came up through the world of finance rotating through various jobs at EF Hutton (remember?), Lehman (remember?), Credit Suisse, etc., and is now in the Venture capital world. When my kids were applying to the Ivies, I called him up for contacts. His reply was, "In my world we hire them. None of my friends went to an Ivy". BTW, he lives in Palm Beach.
What little I know is from my son and daughter's friends. Hardly any pre meds. They consider Teach for America as a really hard to get plum job (it shows how concerned and serious about social issues you are). Some go to law school. A lot go into financial firms as "math jockeys", no matter what they majored in. This may explain my brother's comment and the Michael Lewis' of the world (Princeton grad author of Liar's Poker).
A few years on (again, from my kids friends experience) they are scattered along the roads of the economy.
Yet when you look at Fortune 500 companies, most CEO's come from Harvard, Penn, Stanford, etc. (From a Fortune magazine article)
4F Hepcat wrote:
Jimbo wrote:
I've always found it regarded as a a turn off & it invited a load of prejudice.
I won 'em over...
But I'm not the typical product they churn out.It does invite a lot of ridicule as being a chinless inbred wonder, the kind who populate politics of all persuasions and certain upper echelons of the Armed forces by birth right. Cameron fits into that model pretty well.
The last Tory PM (before this one) who had been educated at a public school was Douglas-Home, which was nearly 50 years ago. Labourites and those on the enlightened left conveniently forget that Blair was a public schoolboy when bashing Cameron.
We do need to move beyond this though. I find the class war shit boring.
Reckless Reggie wrote:
The members of the current UK government are perfect examples of why socialists should try harder. What makes me despise Cameron et al. so much is their faux blokishness - Algernon Farquharson-Keiths parading as Gary Smiths - for the votes of course. You can your bottom dollare that they batten down the hatches in private and play charades for real at the weekend.
...but again what does it say about our country when they have to do this?
formby wrote:
Reckless Reggie wrote:
The members of the current UK government are perfect examples of why socialists should try harder. What makes me despise Cameron et al. so much is their faux blokishness - Algernon Farquharson-Keiths parading as Gary Smiths - for the votes of course. You can your bottom dollare that they batten down the hatches in private and play charades for real at the weekend.
...but again what does it say about our country when they have to do this?
Well, exactly.Eden was jaded and all at sea when it came to the crunch; Douglas-Home was quite amusing in his pride in doing nothing at all. Macmillan, despite the dosh and the education and the old toff image, came from recent crofter stock - nothing wrong with that - they had fire in their bellies to get on the inside track. People don't want to be seen to be fighting their way up anymore by self-improvement as they're afraid of being branded social climbers etc. Politicians seem to feel obliged to follow populist leads instead of using foresight and judgement to lead the way. They are all too afraid to do what needs to be done because they're afraid of unpopularity and losing votes so they even go to the extent of becoming Gary Smiths. Even Blair was at it with his glottal stops and eshtuawy Lon'on accent - even the young princes are 'blokes' and unable to get through a simple sentence without umming and ahhing 'know what I mean?'.
Maybe, there is also a sense that the old toff classes made a right mess of WWI and failing to arm before WWII, lost the Empire in a mire of blood (Partition of India), demonstrated their incompetence in the humiliation of the Suez Crisis and so lost street-cred along the way. Hence it is the Day of Gary Smiff. It's 'is turn nah. He doesn't seem to be any better at leadership and policy formulation though, does he? And he looks and sounds as though he has been dragged through a hedge backwards.
formby wrote:
Reckless Reggie wrote:
... What makes me despise Cameron et al. so much is their faux blokishness - Algernon Farquharson-Keiths parading as Gary Smiths - for the votes of course. You can bet your bottom dollar that they batten down the hatches in private and play charades for real at the weekend.
...but again what does it say about our country when they have to do this?
I think it says that they know exactly what's required not to get voted off the particular reality show they are on.
I almost said: 'the biggest reality show of all they are on'.
But theirs is as ephemeral as any other now. They know it and their viewers know it.
Sammy Ambrose wrote:
formby wrote:
Reckless Reggie wrote:
... What makes me despise Cameron et al. so much is their faux blokishness - Algernon Farquharson-Keiths parading as Gary Smiths - for the votes of course. You can bet your bottom dollar that they batten down the hatches in private and play charades for real at the weekend.
...but again what does it say about our country when they have to do this?
I think it says that they know exactly what's required not to get voted off the particular reality show they are on.
I almost said: 'the biggest reality show of all they are on'.
But theirs is as ephemeral as any other now. They know it and their viewers know it.
formby wrote:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-18205999
Will Self is a sanctimonious little shit, isn't he?
Let's be honest about the nature of the 'professional blogger' - It is the nature of the girl who gingers up advertising sales and who provides advertorial content for a provincial local newspaper, especially when dealing with a niche subject like 'Ivy'.
Enough of the make-believe. Already.
There is no 'professional blogger' just a minor advertising sales gig.
FACT.
J.