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#1 2007-10-13 15:35:22

Marc Grayson
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How To Know If You Dress Like A Slob

http://www.jewishworldreview.com/cols/crosby080204.asp


"‘The sense of being perfectly well dressed gives a feeling of inner tranquility which even religion is powerless to bestow." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Looking good and dressing well is a necessity. Having a purpose in life is not."  Oscar Wilde

 

#2 2007-10-13 15:47:11

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#3 2007-10-13 17:32:22

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The thing is, slobwear is so pervasive and accepted, and slobs so commonplace and imbued with slobbism, even in the most upscale of communities, that if slobs were required to dress with even a modicum of decency--not bespoke clothes but just avoiding sweatshirts, tattered jeans, and sneakers--for even one day, they would be clueless how to do so.


"‘The sense of being perfectly well dressed gives a feeling of inner tranquility which even religion is powerless to bestow." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Looking good and dressing well is a necessity. Having a purpose in life is not."  Oscar Wilde

 

#4 2007-10-13 18:19:03

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I note that in Andyland there has arisen a vociiferous claque of defenders of slobwear! Characterizing slobs and slobwear as such is now denounced as the voice of "hate," "bigotry" and "snobbish elitism."

Like the author of the article, I became much more of a sartorialist largely in reaction to the slobwear regnant at my new place of employment after changing jobs some years ago.

 

#5 2007-10-13 18:31:21

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"‘The sense of being perfectly well dressed gives a feeling of inner tranquility which even religion is powerless to bestow." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Looking good and dressing well is a necessity. Having a purpose in life is not."  Oscar Wilde

 

#6 2007-10-13 21:42:38

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I know this is probably the last thing anyone wants to hear and I probably should make sure I am close to the exit BUT

What makes us think most men dressed well back in the day? I think many of them wore their suits and shirts uncomfortably and resented wealthier or more knowledgeable dressers and maybe even felt at a disadvantage.

People wore those clothes, tailored clothes because they had to and because they would be ostracized if they didnt. Reconcile that with the egalitarian atitude that it's all about money. You cant have both, you cant expect everyone to value both because it's where weve decided the line needs to be drawn.

Also, there seems to be this idea that people treated each other better, that things were better...back then. History does not bear this out. Things might have seemed simpler, we might have known less to shake us out of a comfortable stupor but perhaps the movement against formal dress is association with the behavior of those who wore it best?

In 1940 for instance, I can name a lot of things that were wrong with the world. Number one being we had just crawled out of a depression that almost made us like feudal Europe again. People forget, even those who lived it, that the movies were made exactly to counteract the prevailing misery. Only a handful were wearing nice clothes, most people were ragged.

 

#7 2007-10-14 03:44:24

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I think that nostalgia is always about today.
Nobody is ever looking backwards and saying that they love the past. They are looking backwards and saying that they hate the present.

No?


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#8 2007-10-14 04:19:42

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There was a time when a 3 piece suit would have been considered slob-wear. smile The levels of formality for clothes slowly drift upward as they age, as new styles replace whatever happens to be at the bottom of the scale and send old clothes off into the lofty realms of things you wear to visit the grandparents and eventual sartorial irrelevancy. smile I don't see anything wrong with the American street casual look...A plain well-fitting cotton t-shirt, jeans in a classic cut that haven't gone through acid-washing or stone-washing or any other sort of washing besides run-of-the-mill let's-remove-the-dirt-washing, maybe a heather gray sweatshirt in cotton or wool,  some sneakers that don't look like they came off a spaceship from Mars, top it off with a Carhartt jacket (again in the proper size) or some sort of field coat, and really it's not such a bad look. The biggest problem is people who try to wear it everywhere, for all occasions.

 

#9 2007-10-14 06:11:58

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""This is probably the last Deb season...because of the stock market, the economy, Everything..." - W. Stillman.

 

#10 2007-10-14 23:37:37

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#11 2007-10-15 07:44:46

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#12 2007-10-15 10:07:00

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l used to see a local old bloke (about 90) who used to dress in a three piece suit with bowtie everyday, even in 110 degree weather. But generally, the male septuagenerians in my town wear cheap rubber sole footwear with very dressed-down clothing. The old people aren't leading the way anymore on the sartorial stakes. lt bothers me that no-one seems to enjoy dressing well anymore. lf l see anymore light-grey $10 zip-up vinyl loafers (glued on sole) on any more old farts, l am going to scream.

Even the female septuagenerians are wearing tracksuit pants with sneakers. The ways the older females are dressing disturbs me.

Another thing which disturbs me is the growing number of male slobs wearing baseballs caps while driving motor vehicles. That really gets my goat, especially those teen slobs in tracksuits and baseball caps that drive down the road while listening to loud music with a heavy thunderous beat....cheap rap and extra cheap techno (you can hear the heavy beat from miles around); you know the fat heads i'm talkin' about..l hate those guys.

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#13 2007-10-15 13:35:30

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Most men were not wearing suits in the 20s and 30s. How would this be possible when the amount of office workers was significantly less. Perhaps because most period footage seems to be of the most commercial or affluent areas it reinforces the idea that everyone wore a suit. Everyone might have worn a hat (Ive seen a lot of fedoras worn by men in overalls) but not necessarily a suit. I would believe that everyone owned a suit if only for Sunday-go-to-meetin' purposes which brings me to another point. Most men wore suits because they had to and they probably lived in one or two. Which is why they bought the heavier weight, harder finishing stuff. You literally did everything in a suit and it had to take a beating. Most of them werent elegant, they were serviceable uniforms.

The age of luxury for suits is recent. Men as often wear suits because they want to, not because they need to. I dont care that much if people wear suits or not, I do react poorly when I get chided for wearing one when I am in a business environment. "Slobbery loves company" I dont go for.

I also dislike it when groups like the hedge fund crowd dont wear them as a sign of getting away with something. They should know better, especially because some of them have personalities like obnoxious little twerps and the suit would at least make you feel less like slapping them across the chops. Attorneys seem to know the suit deflects the chop slapping urge which might explain why they are more likely to wear suits (or it just might be that theyre quantitatively even more obnoxious). In any case, someone needs to let me know what's the big deal about wearing a suit in the first place? The Hedge Fund boys all just end up wearing the same thing at a less formal level. Additionally, if they think they are telling people they dont have to wear suits as an "in your face gesture", should I not take it as an affront? It's a bit like someone putting their feet up on my desk. This is not so much authority as provocation. It's hard for me to take a man seriously if he isnt wearing a suit, even if he's sitting on a big pile of cash.

This is all for business purposes which at least American men have some guidelines for. I can understand that there's a lot of confusion for leisure clothes with the types of crowds one mingles with, the types of women they want to attract and all sprinkled with a natural fear of being different, doing it wrong and getting laughed at which haunts American men. Even women seem to know that there is a nrrowly acceptable range that

Wearing a baseball cap or sneakers with a suit is almost always wrong. I say almost because I could see someone putting one on if theyre an NBA coach and they just won the championship and were handed a cap that stated as much.

 

#14 2007-10-15 16:35:20

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Back with a vengeance.

 

#15 2007-10-15 23:40:43

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#16 2007-10-16 00:36:57

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""This is probably the last Deb season...because of the stock market, the economy, Everything..." - W. Stillman.

 

#17 2007-10-16 00:38:33

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Back with a vengeance.

 

#18 2007-10-16 01:14:47

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^ What a scruffy bunch of slobs.


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#19 2007-10-16 02:40:07

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#20 2007-10-16 02:59:14

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#21 2007-10-16 07:26:50

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#22 2007-10-16 07:33:01

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#23 2007-10-16 13:02:56

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#24 2007-10-16 14:43:30

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Cheers.

 

#25 2007-10-16 17:49:18

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Back with a vengeance.

 

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