OK; OK,it applies more to women than to men and there's no point in trying to 'define' it. But we can relate individual experiences of its effect. So, discuss, if you like...
Well, the word charisma comes quickly to mind (too quickly?) and this is very hard to define. To get some kind of angle on this it's probably better to look at historic characters than contemporary ones that exist in an age of mass media (hysteria?)
Here's one of the founding fathers of sociology, Max Weber defining charisma. It may kick us off...
'...Charisma is a certain quality of an individual personality by virtue of which he is set apart from ordinary men and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a leader...'
I wonder whether there are not various forms and also degrees of charismata? For example, Marilyn Monroe's type was quite different from Winston Churchill's or Nelson's widely reported form: indeed one reporter noted the reaction of the men onboard Collingwood's HMS Royal Sovereign when the news of Nelson's death reached them, after the battle: "Chaps that fought like the Devil sit down and cry like a wench". Hitler's form of charisma was undeniable but different again and I knew a small, calm, intellectual, demure English woman who had found herself at a rally in the 1930s and, to her amazement, was swept along by him until she too was saluting.
I am sure that, when Lucifer takes human form, he too has this quality as well as being just short of perfectly dressed.
I am also sure that charisma is much more evident in real life than from film but, even so, I think that MM's films bring it across and Walter Matthau once related how he had been having a drink with Robert Donat in a London pub when a little old lady came up to them and said to Donat: "You're such a comfort." Maybe that is another type again: a quality that gives us comfort or assurance.
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How about manners? Manners are a lost art in the USA; except to the extent that everyone appreciates them but doesnt feel the need to reciprocate. I especially love women with manners. Manners, manners, manners.
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