I'm conflicted about it personally, the men being attracted to it part that is, for I unquestionably believe that women are not, so not arguing that premise. With shoes, I am firmly in the worn in camp, but with suits and the like, I fight two separate impulses. I value fit and precision most of all, so a new item is love, but also the character of use and the resultant spirit it conveys to the wearer, so, well, shit. I basically have no idea which way I think. I vote the zenith is a couple dozen wears, but I keep stuff until it literally falls apart, so I am just talking about when I think it's at it's aesthetic maximum.

Same with watches, your missus ain't going to look better/attractive/stylish, or indeed appreciate a vintage watch, but the right vintage watch on your goodself with decayed/patina on the tritiuim dials will look much better than some modern superluminova chunky monstrosity.

^ Lots of good  stuff to come back to there. Will do that later.