Oh they'll find this thread and everything else your upto on the internet. Don't worry about that!
My missus thinks you're all a bunch of wusses by the way, on the basis of your chosen avatars (not that I intentionally show her what I post on here, with good reason, of course!), with the exception of Mr Chevere. Indeed, as I've posted before, I have always considered Chevere may well be, Art Pepper's dealer, the infamous Mario Cuevas. And to be fair, even my missus has stopped in her tracks to ponder Chevere's avatar that speaks of whisky drinking and gangster prowess, which she automatically assumes I thoroughly endorse and concur with:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jQ3OND64Vw
Last edited by 4F Hepcat (2013-08-02 13:15:39)
You haven't seen my missus!
lol!
I saw Chevere's avatar picture on the front of a birthday card at Target. I was going to take a pic of it but didn't have my phone on me.
Who is it actually a photograph of?
Last night was a success.
One, we had a party on our roof. Met some people. Real casual.
Two, I texted a girl I know and told her she was going on a date with me. She texted back, "ok. maybe. "
Good enough. Ad victoriam.
Great news Jeff, hopefully your squeals of ecstasy will be so loud we will be able to hear them here in Blighty.
Is this a different Girl?
Haha. Yes, different girl. FNB's advice makes a lot of sense in that having a larger pool makes one fret less about each person. I'll always feel like I can take it or leave it, and that kind of attitude will serve me well.
I'm also finding, much to my surprise, that girls are receptive to talking to me, and I'm putting myself in situations to make it happen. Not just going to the party last night, but sitting next to the cutie on the train. Might not be able to strike up anything, but then again maybe you can. If you aren't there, though, you certainly cannot.
Lastly, I learned a tip from an experienced friend. If you see a girl you like, and she catches you looking at her, do not look away. Don't glare creepily, but show her that you like what you see and are not afraid to admire her. Girls like nothing more than to be admired. Looking away quickly makes you look like a perv or a coward. Interesting. Nothing has come of it but some smiles and return looks, but that is more than I ever had before.
Last edited by Jeff Reed (2013-08-03 15:03:17)
FNB is a wise dude, what a turn around in a couple of days
What great adventures you are about to embark on (I am envious).
Although I have been happily married for 16 years and would never stray.
I do miss those nervous butterflies you get in the pit of your stomach when talking
To a new lady or going on a first date. Good luck with it Jeff and keep us posted.
I deeply resent being call a 'wuss' when my work, in national security, requires me to go about in disguise. The very happiness of Hep's missus depends on guys like me.
Nice work Jeffster. Remember, you're a tiger! RAAAAWR!
We're all rooting for you.
Go Jeffers go Jeffers go Jeffers
I totally just did that thing where you put your arms up and thrust your palms into the air... like you're pushing something up, or trying to lift the roof off the building. What's that called?
Golden rule - treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen. Women don't want to date weeds.
Jeff Weed
That's the French pronunciation.
Met an Indian girl on the train today. Very crowded 4 train. We were basically forced to stand face to face at close quarters. I said, "I'm sorry to be so forward before I've even properly introduced myself. Name's Jeff."
"Nilaya", she said.
"Still beats Calcutta, right?", I asked.
Hey...I was told to be lighthearted!