Read the latest on SW today which struck me as a bit odd .. I have copied it below ...
Is Will paying for these women's company? If not I wonder what a 20 something French dancer specialising in nude cabaret would talk about with someone like Will, a 50 something clothes blogger & luxury accessory seller (or haberdasher if you prefer). Do they for instance talk about the relevance of a faux tweed for City wear, or perhaps the frustrating length of most men's scarves? Can anyone help me understand what is going on here .. mid life crisis, use of hallucinogenic substances causing a blurring of reality and fantasy or perhaps a cynical marketing ploy to put some glamour into what is otherwise a very dull business of selling ties and socks et al to a credible community of wannabes?
Most of the women I know in Paris have names like Zula Zazou, Jade Or, Psykko Tico and Nooka Karamel and work at Crazy Horse, the cabaret on Avenue George V. We planned to get together the other evening, which posed the question of what to wear. You see, despite traveling with a small trunk that some consider overkill, it took a couple re-packings before the lid would close on two suits and two pair of shoes with their associated accessories. I had no space for clubwear.
When I visit other cities these days I pack according to a formula, wearing an odd jacket and a roll neck pullover with a pair of walking shoes, and carrying a gray suit and a navy suit with two pair of black shoes. The navy suit and a bow tie usually work as evening dress, however Nooka and friends insisted on meeting in a considerably less formal venue than my usual haunts. Even a lightweight rollneck would have been too warm to wear in an overheated room, leaving little choice but to carry on in the same suit I'd worn to lunch with Adrian (of Dirnelli's Mises) and a group of clothing enthusiasts that afternoon. The best I could do was to change into a white shirt and an evening necktie and ignore the curious glances of the club's shirt and trouser dressed patrons.
Travel during the once upon a time days of railroad cars and steamships accommodated all the clothing the most dandyish of us could desire. Unless the carrier is one's own Gulfstream (I misplaced mine) airplanes today force an unfortunate trade-off between elegance and practicality.
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It struck me as odd that he claims that he wants to pack so much stuff for travel - more than his wife even.
That behaviour might have worked when people had steamer trunks and crossed the Atlantic by sea.
Then there is all his fretting about what to wear in the one week when it is neither Summer nor Autumn, Winter nor Spring etc.
There is only so much you can say about clothes anyway.
I'm sorry, why does this association with women bother you more than his taste in clothes?
Because I don't believe his story & I don't approve of people selling things using bullshit.
Frankly, it sounds like a (slightly) more sophisticated take on the sort of story peddled in high school locker rooms, which as we all know were aimed at raising ones respect among 'the guys'. Here, I suspect the story is designed to appeal to the credible iGent who Will thinks will be convinced that by wearing a challis bow tie & yellow chamois gloves his chances with a French showgirl may be raised.
For this sort of strategy to work it would require Will to be a little younger, better looking & a LOT more interesting. Its quite amusing that he thinks he could fit the bill ... the gap between the perception of ourselves & reality is often extremely wide, as any honest tailor will probably tell you.
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A more credible and interesting piece from Will.
http://asuitablewardrobe.blogspot.co.uk/2013/11/the-rise-of-internet-gentleman.html
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That would be hypocritical of us .. we give comps et al a hard time, why should we exempt someone who profiteers through hawking overpriced gee gaws by creating a bullshit sartorial ideology along with a made up lifestyle. He is a Snake oil salesman.
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Doesn't has anything to do with the article, but I wouldn't mind traveling where a steamer trunk was still a viable option. Not that I'd do it, I am a compulsive light traveler that only does carryon, but it says something for the mode of travel I think. Did a crossing on the QM2. Best travel hands down.
I thought Will was married. While many older married guys probably enjoy hobnobbing with 20-something cabaret dancers (or would enjoy it if they don't), it does seem rather impolitic to publicize it in this matter. Or have he and Mrs. Boehlke split up...or do they perhaps have an "open marriage"? (Now that was a very '70s concept that sure died on the vine!)
Do extremists stay married? Do women generally like such indulgent men?
btw, l am not having a go at Will. l like the guy and remember him from his early AAAC days in 2004 when he was quite down-to-earth and low key.
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^ He seems a decent sort though.
Neither he nor Cromps are models and they have to work with what God gave them.
Safari suits and such like are his biggest mistakes.
I'm not sure I classify a healthy love of the female form with made up high school conquests.
I think the male fear of loving clothes is more of an anglo thing. Certainly most everybody I grew up with in PR was attentive to dress and as a matter of fact, those who weren't were seen as lacking a necessary skill.
The fear of being too attentive to appearance in the anglosphere is not just a male thing. I also remember growing up recognizing the American mothers of my classmates at a glance by how shabby they dressed compared to my other PR friends mothers.
To this day, as a Plastic Surgeon, the single question that gets asked at almost every single consult is: "Doctor, do I need this?"
To my mother, who is north of 80, or to any of my sisters or nieces that question does not even make sense. Of COURSE nobody needs it, but who wouldn't want it?
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Will and Crompie are not now - and never have been - cross-dressers. I hope that is clear.