I would be dismayed, but I feel I've grown immune to the modern "I want <insert object of desire>, but I don't feel I should do any of the work required for it".

The guy is on the right track by concerning himself with his appearance. It absolutely matters (of course). Shock of shocks, though, not all women are going to like you no matter what you wear, even those you believe are in your own "class", or league.

This guy is specific about what he wants, so he is going to have to do a lot of prowling and be rather aggressive in his search.

Finding a mate is one thing I think people do try too hard at, and where not caring much is the proper approach. There are a lot of ways to meet people. Eventually you will meet some you like. They might even like you too. Go from there, but don't put too much effort into the search. When you find one that you like and she likes you, then put effort into that.

Do you know who else doesnt care what no one thinks? Psychos... if you want to attract masochists it might be the right way to go about dressing..

I do care what people think about what I wear..I want them to be pleased by it..hopefully it'll bring some joy to their day as it has mine..

The main thing is here different ways of dressing will attract different types of people and if you're being honest in the way you dress you'll attract someone whose is the right person for you

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Dating thread has been deleted. Damn, l never had the chance to read the responses.

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Enlightenment brings dreams. Live in the light and experience mindlessness and you can have all the good stuff come into your life.

My ultimate dream = to become completely mindless 24/7. How do we become completely mindless?...to access the `light' via the 3rd eye and enter other cosmic dimensions.

We can all reach that point, but we need to see through the cloak of illusion that the system we live under places upon us. Minimise the physical and live in the light, in that way we can become mindless most of the time. Unfortunately the devils system doesn't allow for that luxury most of the time, but we are to blame for falling into temptation because previous memories were none so we didn't understand what perfection was.

Does this makes sense to most? Probably not, but one day it will. It is the truth of truths.

Be well my brothers,

Yours in light,

Ole shooey.

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Someone is trolling the lugnuts over at the Hat Forum about how bad British style has become--or was it always bad?

http://www.thefedoralounge.com/showthread.php?80918-Is-British-style-not-what-it-was-%28or-maybe-never-was-in-the-1st-place%29


Marinating one's new belt in olive oil:

http://www.thefedoralounge.com/showthread.php?80913-Vegetable-Tanned-Natural-Leather-amp-Olive-Oil-match-made-in-heaven


The ungrasped and inexplicable concept of material objects wearing out:

http://www.thefedoralounge.com/showthread.php?80800-Leather-Watchband-Rot

I should document some of the people I encounter on a daily basis, just to put things into perspective.  The very busy and very huge MEGA gas (that's petrol) station near my house, that has a cafe and all kinds of bullshit in it, along with like 40 gas pumps, is a mecca of just the worst clothing choices imaginable.

The only time Im genuinely impressed is by the older chaps who have seemed to got it right.. maybe Im judging it differently but I dont see much I like..probably because its all johnny foreigner all money no taste..the old school British chaps are the ones that hit the nail on the head for me and I only see the odd one