The usual sound bites and barminess mixed-in with some decent advice:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/fashion-and-style/11518108/How-to-look-stylish-when-youre-a-fat-fortysomething.html
I dont think approaching the situation with rules for all is the right way to go..
There are different types of fat and overweight too...so I wouldnt even put everyone into the fat pile..
as a larger gent Id say what has worked for me though is smaller patterns, big checks made me look bigger, fitted suits that dont hinder but are trim to avoid anyother illusion of width... if you having a spilling belly I dont think a rise that allows it to spill over your waist band is the way to go...in fact the best rise I found was the natural waist when I was bigger..
Id avoid a shirt that is too baggy or too fitted both wont help..Ralph used to do an amazing cut that worked very well that hid man-mams..
I prefered to keep belts thin..as it reduced how noticeable your waist area is.
trousers tapered to slim the silhouette as well as a higher arm hole and longer jacket to stretch the length of the body.
A comfortable collar if you do have a wide neck probably best to get that stretchy button thing fitted so the collar sits on the skin and doesnt pull into it..
Last thing the suit will probs want structure especially round the moobs any natural drap never worked when i was big
Thats my advice
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It's a favourite among the larger middle aged Ferrari drivers in Beaconsfield who eat as much rich food as their cars drink petrol.
The other two fits are ideal: the Slim Fit and the Classic one.
But the Custom Fit is a design classic: an off-the-peg shirt with in-built pot belly protector. Genius.
I didnt know about this thread but the girl I was out with last night asked about and then scrolled through the forum. Suddenly, she asked me why I would write about such a topic and give it such a title!? I was a bit at a loss for words but finally I said, I never would but after reading the article, it's sound if generalized advice.
It is rather generalized and some of the comments by the readers are worth a good laugh, but wearing a suit and tie all the time to hide your chubby middle aged spread? It's a bit much, you have to work with your strengths and limitations, but being a middle aged male, is not necessarily a weakness when it comes to proving you are the alpha male with the ladies.
Being in the 45 age grouping, albeit with a Kirk Douglas chiseled chin, I can testify that a good sports jacket paired with a button-down, with or without tie and good pants, including chinos and a good pair of gunboats is all that you need to announce your sartorial arrival.
You can get away with a Swatch watch too!
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Or just watch what you eat and get some exercise.
I have a rather persistent salesman who pops into my office too frequently that I think looks really put together. He dresses for the seasons in terms of color which seems a lost art. He must be in his middle fifties. He's tall and rather wide and cuts an impressive figure. Pleated pants are always cuffed and creased and have a nice drape, shoes are shined, always in a tasteful tie. His most recent visit brought him in some grey worsted trousers, a navy sweater vest and a crisp white shirt with a nice sort of pastel yellow tie. It's not like he's doing anything special other than just making a little effort, but his clothes just fit and he's head and shoulders above most of the clowns that traipse through the door. He could be getting everything from Jos A Bank for all I know.
I think colour and pattern mixing is just something men either get or they don't. Frankly I think a guy who wears burgundy boots with a purple (under £50) tie (one presumes he thinks purple and burgundy looks well together) and a black (under £50) suit should stick to writing about whats on TV and not offer "style" advice to other middle aged men, carrying a bit of pud or otherwise.
Purgundy
Interesting observations on PRL "Custm Fit" - my preferred shirt for casual
Burn it.
Look at old films (pre70s) and a lot of the older actors were from the days before keeping in shape was almost obligatory to be on screen, and yet most look good - simply by wearing the men's styles of the day. Not that such styles can do miracles, but they can certainly compensate to an extent. (I'm referring to all the variations on classic menswear i.e. British, natural shoulder, contintental.)
Nowadays men's style seems to be a weird hybrid of hyper-sexualised and childlike, revealing too much of the wearer. Particularly bad on men who are out of shape.
I think things do have to move forward but when the principles of good clothing go out the window..you're basically fucked..
I think you look great there moose