Who'll admit to people watching? I do it all the time, often from the passenger seat of the car. You need a steady stream of traffic, i.e. people going about their business.
Is there a current male fashion? I only ask this because a fruitless search for my cuff-links led to a discussion about, well, men no longer wearing them, then detachable collars, why and when men stopped wearing hats, MTM as against OTP etc. Then just how dismal the modern male looks (sorry, yes, I know we've had the visual illiteracy thread...) in his gulag-wear, nylon football shirts, skinny jeans, trainer socks, formless clumpy shoes, plastic trainers etc. etc. I won't 'throw' something on even for a trip to the supermarket. Everything is carefully selected in my head whilst shaving, showering, drinking coffee, whatever. Yet I rarely feel 'over-dressed'. Do you?
I'm pretty sure farrago, years ago now, remarked that even the wearing of a Shetland jumper would cause comments in his part of the United States re 'being dressed up'. So what is it? Apathy? Indifference? Lack of pride?
Whatever became of 'clean living in difficult circumstances'?
It all reminds me of a commentator on the evolution of language. The English refuse to be polite because they're afraid of being thought affected.
Funny old world.
I've thought about this a lot, and I think the short answer is that it's about a lot more than clothes. Clothes are just the most obvious symptom of a deeper malaise. A poster on here hit the nail on the head when he noted that the key thing was the almost complete erasure of any sense of occasion, appropriateness or formality. I think this is related to a general rejection of authority in the West which has been brewing since the post-war years, and shows no sign of running out of steam yet. There are things to be said both for and against this trend, but I think sartorially we have definitely lost out. I know that as the pendulum swings one way, it is sure to swing back the other, but I don't see it happening any time soon.
Most of the people I see -- the ones who aren't elderly -- look like they are en route to a drug deal at a bowling alley.
The older crowd still takes some care. Lots of vintage gents decked out in LL Bean flannel shirts and threadbare cords.
You’ve only got to look at the average high street to see where half the problem lays. If you’re in an average small town, mens clothing options will be JD sports, Millets, Trespass and charity. Larger towns will have a larger JD Sports, and the usual suspects, Next. Primark. River Island. Out of town? even bigger JD Sports, TKMaxx.
In my experience it’s the smaller towns that mostly have hoards of males swaggering or shuffling round in jogging bottoms and hoodies. I’m sure there’s a much deeper issue than just availability. But I’m at peace with it. Hey! It makes the rest of us look better.
Like AFS, I couldn’t go out without putting thought into what I’m wearing. I’m low on time in the mornings (school run etc.) and have really noticed the benefits in taking the time to work out what I’m wearing tomorrow, do any ironing, polishing etc. and hanging it up ready to go. Even shaving properly with DE razor.
When I walk out the door in the morning I feel happy that I’ve made the effort. Even if a quick glance around shows I was the only one.
I think SB hits a nail or two on the head there.
Without meaning to sound pretentious - heaven forbid - I think of the shirt I select when about to mix with other people as virtually 'a work of art'. This may well be a USA-made Brooks that was difficult to come by (Dennis - Shamrock - was invaluable in this respect). No-one knows or cares. But I do.
Alvey made a point a day or so ago that he would once travel from Birmingham to London to buy more specialised clothing items. Now, he might not take the trouble: because of the kind of shops Spendthrift mentions above. The menswear shop in my hometown seemed more than happy around twelve to fourteen years ago to sell Tommy Hilfiger; thought it quite a big deal. I used to wander in wearing Troy Guild to buy my Falke socks and Trumpers Essence of Limes. Back in the 60s it had been very, very upmarket indeed.
The great thing about Ivy - it takes thought and discipline.
The best you can do is lead by example isn't it? I grew up with Uncles who had their shirts, suits and shoes handmade, and was taught to polish my shoes by my grandad. Every place I've ever lived, one of the first things I've done is find a good local tailor. Now I'm teaching my own boys. I think every generation will have a few people who care enough to make an effort. It keeps the flame alive.
I think I taught my Son well,( he's now in his 40's), he always dresses well & appropriate for all situations, although not a trace of Ivy to my great sadness ! My Daughter thinks I'm the best dressed man she knows, I think she often despairs of her husband, he has no idea whatsoever ! My Dad was always well turned out, working class values passed onto me, shiny shoes, well pressed suit & tie and that was just to go for a Sunday lunchtime pint !
^ I sympathise. My son-in-law and putative son-in-law both dress like shirt. My brother-in-law (well, one of them) dresses well: former Northern Soul devotee/Casino all-nighters. Shines his shoes on a regular basis. Those working class values were of the utmost importance.
Listen to John Cooper Clarke on 'middle market leisure wear'. Remember couples seen out and about in matching shell suits? So this has probably been building for close to the past half century. SB is well on target. Perhaps it all fits in with the deplorable changes in our language, the growing inability to 'agree to disagree', road rage, idiots getting pissed on aeroplanes, not to mention conspiracy theories and so on spread around on social media. Or it that people prefer to spend their money on personalised number-plates and holidays in Mexican compounds?
.............Or, maybe a slightly different train of thought, but, maybe this 'golden time' we're referring to was a relatively short lived period? Starting to show itself around the start of the 1900s, maybe later, and fading by the mid - late century? Just a blip?
How well turned out would the average, whatever the equivalent of 'lower middle class' man, be in Brixton, Glasgow, Rome or Michigan in say, 1742? Not much in the way of clothes shops. Less so hot running water. Not an option to pick out a shirt if all you've got is the clothes you've sewn yourself into for winter and the boots/clogs/bare feet you're standing in. And no point if the only option you've got for getting out is a walk to the other side of the village to look at the dung hill again.
A few years ago there was a history mini series 'Filthy Cities' - London, Paris, New York. I mean, until comparatively recently 99% of these people lived in abject squalor by todays standards. Dressing and carrying themselves 'correctly' just wouldn't have been on the agenda. Eating. Not catching The Plague. Avoiding the wrath of God. That's what they would have been concerned about.
Going way back, Possibly too far to properly illustrate the point, The Romans were scornful of the British as they spent too much time painting themselves blue, getting out of it on suspect herbal potions and endlesslesy scrapping with each other. Doesn't sound that far removed from Yates's Wine Lodge on a Friday night?
I'm not saying we're not fighting the good fight. We are right. But maybe we're battling against something that's been in the DNA of the average man for a very long time?
Yes, my dad was always well turned out. Not expensively, but with care. Navy Harringtons, probably St Michael; black Chelsea boots; OTP hopsack 2-piece suit in airforce grey. Lee jeans and cable-knit sweaters at the weekend.
It's not universal in my family though. My two younger brothers dress atrociously — I'm talking tracksuits to weddings and torn T-shirts to restaurants. I have a tentative theory that this disparity is down to my always being a history buff. Also, TV repeats ranged more widely through the decades in the past, so I always felt comfortable with the styles of earlier decades through old films and serials. I think I imbibed the values of earlier periods through Laurel & Hardy, RKO and Universal movies, Harold Lloyd and hundreds of other things. That mixed with family traditions to make me the oddball I am today…
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LOL! You and me both, SB. Those movies... I can see Leslie Halliwell's books on the shelf directly in front of me... My period, 1929 to circa 1941...
Yes SB. I'm sure this is where I get it from. As you say, growing up with Harold Lloyd, Laurel and Hardy, Those great old B&W war films. As an eight year old kid in 1980 I was transfixed by the old british films. Millions Like Us etc. And those fabulous first Carry On films. Before they went 1970's seaside postcard.
There's something. A residue that carries on through your life. An example of how to dress and carry yourself that may not be 'real life', whatever that is, but I can tell you that Bob Monkhouse in Dentist On the Job, or Cary Grant in Houseboat taught me lessons that I'll be forever grateful for.
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We have a nice collection of those late 30s/40s British films. 'Millions Like Us', 'Cottage To Let', 'Next Of Kin', 'Went The Day Well?' Watched many times over. Those who haven't seen their work should check out Powell and Pressburger, beginning with 'Edge Of The World' (Powell before Pressburger) and perhaps ending with 'The Red Shoes' (a great favourite of Scorsese, echoed in the irritating 'Shutter Island'). 'A Canterbury Tale' should not be missed. Over at Ealing, everything by Robert Hamer is worth watching, including the 'Mirror' sequence in 'Dead Of Night'.
'The Romans were scornful of the British as they spent too much time painting themselves blue, getting out of it on suspect herbal potions and endlesslesy scrapping with each other. Doesn't sound that far removed from Yates's Wine Lodge on a Friday night?'
Brilliant post. I bet the food in Rome in that era was a lot better than its British equivalent.
Lots of stomach complaints on both sides of the water. The Romans favoured a kind of rich fish sauce that often laid them low.
Jane Grigson once quipped that when William came over in 1066 he left his chef behind. A travel writer I once read spoke of British hotels and restaurants serving food 'more in anger than sorrow'. That was in 1928. Len Deighton blamed the development of cheap cast iron stoves. Byng and Dickens were both down on English cooking and the way it was served.
The Turks on the other hand provide service with a smile, their women are often delightful to look at, they bring warm bread to the table and, once you've eaten it, they bring you more. They also bring you tasty little dishes in which to dip the bread. I have never had a bad or overpriced Turkish meal.
Does anyone know of a good Jewish restaurant in London? Hasn't Bloom's gone? I've sometimes dabbled with Jewish food but have not eaten it in a restaurant since visiting Venice (Hasidic food: very good).
English food can be very good - but where do you come across an English restaurant?
I think a lot of the more expensive restaurants do English or British food. There's one in Leicester called The Case that I've been to a couple of times. Overpriced pretentious crap is my verdict of that joint. Probably ideal for a 3rd division footballer trying to impress his date. But make sure you eat before going as the portions are on the small side.
According to their website: 'Cooking with fresh seasonal produce, offering no-nonsense British food with an eclectic mix from around the globe.' It's a restaurant and champagne bar. For some reason I have a visceral antipathy towards champagne bars.
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The best restaurant I know in Leicester is Kurdish. Cheap, the food is wonderful and it's near the city centre. Big portions too. (Not licensed though.) Very popular (assuming it's still there).
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I’m sure you’re all aware of the Brooklyn-based movement that celebrates everything bespoke and well-made and old-fashioned and long lasting? They may not be wearing Ivy, but they’re well put out; modern-day dandies who care about their beard oil and their selvedge and their vintage this and that. It’s gastronomic too.
Some great posts here. SB nails it for me. Spendthrift thought provoking and Staxfan, as ever, a mirror image, of well me.
Jdemy, could you tell us more? I'm certainly in the dark on more or less anything to do with Brooklyn, other than that I used to buy books online from a secondhand dealer there. Did you know vintage American paperbacks have a completely different smell to, say, Pan? True.
Kurdish I'm pretty certain I would like. In fact, I aim to try every ethnic eating place on and around Alfreton Road before my daughter graduates.
You're all bang on about the old movies — total immersion leads to inspiration from the strangest quarters. And Spendthrift, yes, good point; the pleasure of well-made clothes are a luxury only afforded those who can count on the next meal.
I have a theory, that made to measure, off the peg clothing put the writing on the wall for quality mass market clothing. That might seem paradoxical, as we're here on a forum celebrating the golden age of ready-to-wear, but consider this: I collect vintage men's magazines, and read the clothes columns with interest. What strikes me most forcefully is that from the 30s through to the 50s, all the sartorial questions concern cut and material. Time again, somebody will ask, 'I've just come back from such-and-such, and all my suits are tropical worsted, what weave would you recommend to get me through winter?' Or 'I'm looking for a raglan overcoat, would Melton or a Donegal be best?'.
I cannot recall a case where the reader requests, or the magazine recommends, an actual brand. Now soon enough this would all be swept away of course. A British analogy might be the 'Don't Be Vague, Ask For Haig' effect, whereby the emphasis in the public eye moves away from cuts, style and materials to labels, brands, and eventually designers. The result? Roll on sixty years and who's going to bet that any ten men on the street could tell one tweed from another, a darted jacket from a sack, a goodyear welt from a glued sole. The manufacturers have won. They have shaped a clueless consumer, who they can supply with any old third world sweatshop nylon rubbish, so long as it has the right label on it.
Rant over.
^ You're right.
I finally - and he would have been bemused at the very idea - took some of my cues from my father. He was entirely self-conscious about what he wore, just bought the best he could afford. I remember some slouchy tweed in the 70s. A black sheepskin (borrowed by me without his permission). Quite a few polo neck sweaters in conservative colours. Shoes from Church.
I crept into black music. He was about thirty five to forty years ahead of me. Knew under which stone Gerry Mulligan kept his stash.
Those old ads and style guides - fantastic, aren't they? No encouragement there to wear your shorts on any and every occasion.