I'm constantly turned off when I see young (20-something) couples on dates in nice venues, with the young ladies dressed in attractive dresses, high heels, nice jewelry etc. and their dates in untucked shirts, not very clean jeans, and unpolished shoes. Don't know who's more at fault-the guys for not caring, or the gals for letting them get away with it. I also have never visited a house of worship without a jacket and tie-just a matter of respect.